this blog really needs an update, which is exactly what the author is doing right now.

it's ironic how although we always seem to be the rational ones rendering help and advice when our friends/acquaintances are in certain, shall we say, situations, but when our own asses are in the almost exact same situations, we disobey almost, if not all the rules we used to set for others to follow. and despite the fact that we are aware of it, we decide to go ahead anyway. and so many of us just wonder why.

the author thinks that one of the reasons is because it just feels right. and so many feelings are just too complex to explain. and because overanalysing might just end up being more unnecessary trouble than it's worth. worse, it might just end up ruining a perfectly good thing.
so just have fun. everyone has only one life. indulge a little if you need to, but stay rational, and not lose sight of the other important things in life.

it sounds really cliched.

but that's just probably because it's true.